First loved, then laid, then paid.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 June 2025 source ↗
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First loved, then laid, then paid.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 June 2025 source ↗
I just wanted to fulfil my potential.
I didn’t have a chance to want to be anything – I became an actor at 11.
A teacher and a nightclub singer.
A mutant turtle ninja.
I’m from Birmingham. I’m not afraid of things. Things are afraid of me.
Appearing on US breakfast radio. I heard the DJ say that after the news we would hear from the author Lincoln Child. I had to choose between making a guy with a mixed-up PR release look like an idiot or pretending to be Lincoln. I pretended.
In 1993, making love on the beach of a deserted island in the Bahamas.
A painting by Renoir, paid for by demanding a huge fee for a screenwriting deal with a producer I didn’t want to work for. The movie was never made.
“Try this, you’ll love it.”
More than I can, sadly. I led the softest of lives in the softest of times, and my daughter will face sterner challenges.
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