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What period or moment in your life brought you the most joy?

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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

Asked in 52 of the 131 consecutive instalments of The Guardian's The Q&A harvested on 2026-08-29.

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HJ
Henry Louis Gates Jr.
Recorded said elsewhere, not written here
Well, I’m happiest on Martha’s Vineyard, between July 1 and Labor Day, riding my tricycle with Larry Bobo every afternoon and fishing with Buddy Vanderhoop. But I was happiest from my childhood through high school in Piedmont, West Virginia; it was magical. I was sorry when it was time to go off to college.

Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, March 2019 source ↗

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Mel Giedroyc British actress and comedian
Yesterday: sun-lounger, back garden, cup of tea, radio on.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 1 August 2015 source ↗
Living in London in the late 60s—setting my hair with beer cans and shopping for shoes in Knightsbridge.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, January 2010 source ↗
Olivia Williams British actress
People are often traumatised by the sleeplessness in the first years of their children’s lives, but I was insanely happy to be married and have two children. The only dark cloud was how much we were loathed for having babies who slept through the night.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 30 April 2022 source ↗
Danny DeVito American actor, comedian and filmmaker
I have been very fortunate in my life. I have had a lot of happiness. I have a great family and I work a lot, and that's what I like to do.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 26 January 2013 source ↗

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Question What does happiness look like for you when life is going well? Identity & self
Late one Sunday afternoon, my three-year-old granddaughter, out of the blue, took my hand and said she wanted to whisper something to me. Could we go for a ride around the block before we all sat down for dinner? Just the two of us? Holding hands as we walked to and from the car in the driveway: Bliss.
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 28 March 2019 source ↗
Question What do you fear most? Identity & self
That we will be remembered as a people who locked our fellow citizens in cages and who believe that some people are rich and some people are poor because “it’s their nature” and that racism and poverty are inevitable parts of the order of things; that M.L.K. and Bobby Kennedy died in vain; and that no one any longer believes what M.L.K. said in his Nobel Prize address in Oslo: “There is nothing new about poverty. What is new, however, is that we have the resources to get rid of it.”
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, March 2019 source ↗

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