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Asked in 52 of the 131 consecutive instalments of The Guardian's The Q&A harvested on 2026-08-29.
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Pittsford, New York, writing my first book when our kids were small, riding my bike to work because we only had one car…that feeling of being needed and loved and vitally involved in something artistic that I didn’t fully understand, everything still lying ahead of us.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, January 2023 source ↗
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I’d like to have a more generous, less anxious mind.
Being aware and accepting of whatever the state of my mind happens to be at the moment (even if that state is unhappy).
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