To believe my eyes and not my ears.
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What has been your biggest disappointment?
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Which moment embarrassed you most?
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What do you consider your greatest achievement?
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If you could edit your past, what would you change?
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What is the worst thing anyone has said to you?
Failure & regret
Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Compare and despair. Comparing yourself with someone else or what someone else is doing or what someone else has is a recipe for sadness. What matters is who you are and what you want.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 February 2023 source ↗
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View all 137 →Sacrifice the self and you will gain it. Serve the self and you will lose it.
That everything happens for a reason.
Worry about the things you can control and don’t worry about the things you can’t.
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View profile →I have very poor time management. I am often running late, I procrastinate a lot.
I’ve learned to accept everything. Part of enjoying life is releasing those disappointments.
I don’t embarrass easily: I’m kinda shameless.
Getting to challenge the status quo by being myself, just existing openly and honestly and boldly on a public level. It hasn’t always been easy, and it came with its fair set of challenges and sacrifices, and I am proud of that.
I would try to work on being able to trust people more easily.
“You’re never going to make it.” It was some guy I was dating. I had the last laugh.
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