Realising that if they were drowning, you’d try to save them.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 May 2022 source ↗
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What does love feel like?Originally asked
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Realising that if they were drowning, you’d try to save them.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 May 2022 source ↗
I’m trying to figure out how to receive unconditional love. That’s hard to do when you’ve never really had it, so I’m trying to navigate that.
In some way your life is doubled. You’re you and the other person.
Euphoric and very calming.
Relief and an achy feeling in your cheeks from smiling.
A little girl called Pat. We were nine-year-olds together and all the class made her life a misery. I knew she wanted to be my friend and I would only be friends with her if nobody else was around. I feel dreadful about that.
Catastrophising.
A few years ago in Vermont, when I eloped with Trish to have a civil partnership ceremony.
When I was in my 30s and taped myself singing. I always thought I had quite a sweet voice – my voice is terrible, I can’t hold a note.
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