Kareem Abdul-Jabbar
Basketball player and author
Loyalty. Not fawning, but a loyalty based on our shared love and history that fosters compassion and forgiveness.
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Which living person do you most admire, and why?
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Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?
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Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
A fixed Vanity Fair Proust Questionnaire item asked across its three-decade archive, with independent variants in friendship and profile interviews.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Being there for each other during good times and bad.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 2 September 2025 source ↗
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Rafael Nadal
Spanish professional tennis player, 2001–2024
The word says it all. To be a friend means that they are always there, for the good or the bad.
They want to leave the party the same time I do.
If I haven’t seen them in years and yet can pick up conversation like it was yesterday.
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Losing family, friends, and loved ones.
Gabby Giffords. She’s a survivor of gun violence and a relentless champion of sensible gun safety measures.
Playing the Cowardly Lion in our fourth-grade production of The Wizard of Oz. Thank you, Mr. Riccobono.
Being judgmental.
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