I’m terribly impatient.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
I can’t stand the way my voice will crack if I’m making a speech. I hate public speaking and the emotion it dredges up.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, June 2025 source ↗
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View all 250 →Impatience married with being very quick to judge.
Oh, I have a long list. You should ask me what I like about myself—that list is much shorter.
Maxi-multitasking.
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As someone who did what he could with what he had.
A family dinner. Candlelight. Lots of laughs.
They want nothing but friendship.
Food in a sink drain.
Before I knew what being an actor was, I wanted to be one.
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