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When you need counsel, who is the first person you call?

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Kiri Te Kanawa

Opera singer

Recorded said elsewhere, not written here
Totally. I’d say parents, brothers, sisters, and don’t go far beyond that for the moment. If you’ve had a long-term relationship with an agent, that’s a whole different thing, because that agent is there to care.

Academy of Achievement interview, The Metropolitan Opera House, New York City, 9 April 2008 source ↗

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Gregory Winter British biochemist
People refer to the ‘LMB culture’ as the thing, one of the things, that makes it special. It’s an attention to people who are willing to tackle very big problems. I mean problems that are so big that you couldn’t just solve it in a grant. The kind of problem that you could devote your life to. I was very fortunate in having mentors of Fred Sanger and César Milstein who exercised a kind of very benign mentorship but encouraged us to think big.
Recorded Adam Smith, Telephone interview recorded shortly after the prize announcement, Nobel Prize Outreach, 1 October 2018 source ↗
Ernst Mayr Naturalist and evolutionary biologist
Anyhow, I talked it over with my mother, and she said, “Well, if that’s what you want, go right ahead.” She was a wonderful woman. And so I did.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, Cambridge, Massachusetts, 5 April 2001 source ↗
Gab Bois Artist
Still, I do have people I turn to before that point… I’ll send my ideas or images to a friends group chat or I ask my boyfriend, you know? Also, my dad has always been such an important figure in my life, and still is. He’s probably the most knowledgeable person I know.
Recorded The Talks, 9 March 2022 source ↗
Maya Angelou Poet, memoirist and civil rights activist
Try to retain some of the finest parts of the African American culture, some of the sweetest parts. The fact that people kind of drop their voices and become almost musical when they talk to a friend, or to a preacher, or to a teacher. They say, “Hey! How you doin’?” Remember that. Keep the melody in your mind and in your spirit. It will keep you tender in the tough times, which is very important.
Recorded Academy of Achievement, Academy of Achievement interview, Winston-Salem, North Carolina, 1 April 2000 source ↗

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Question Which writers or artists have most influenced your work? Taste & recommendation
Yes, a major one, along with Sir Georg Solti. Because they’re both Hungarian, I used to call them the Hungarian mafia. He was always onto me. “Have you bring to Vera?” And then she’d say, “Georg, he won’t be liking this bit.” And between the two of them, there was this whish-whish-whish, like sword fighting, and I was being killed by the both of them. But I enjoyed every minute of it. It was good for me.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, The Metropolitan Opera House, New York City, 9 April 2008 source ↗

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