Kelly Hoppen: How would you sum yourself up in three words? — FLAPSS

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How would you sum yourself up in three words?

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Kelly Hoppen

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Fiercely loyal, funny, easy-going. I’m sure my daughter and stepdaughters wouldn’t agree with the last bit, but I think I am.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

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Chaotic, warm, northern.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 January 2026 source ↗

High-functioning introvert.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 17 May 2025 source ↗

Needing order always.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 June 2026 source ↗

Loving, sincere, honest.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 October 2023 source ↗

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Question As a child, what career or life did you imagine for yourself? Identity & self

A travel agent.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

Question What trait do you most dislike in other people? Values & belief

I can’t bear people who lie.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

Question What is the harshest thing anyone has said to you? Failure & regret

“Your cooking sucks” – before I learned to cook in Covid.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

Question What disappointment has stayed with you longest? Failure & regret

I had an opportunity many years ago to move to America and be given a daytime TV show. The kids were quite young and I decided not to, but looking back I wish I had done it.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

Question Which book do you still mean to read, and why has it stayed on your list? Taste & recommendation

All of them. I’m not someone who can sit down and read – I wish I could.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

Question When were you most embarrassed? Failure & regret

Years ago in a safari park in South Africa, and getting all dressed up for dinner. Walking across the lawn, I didn’t realise there was a swimming pool that hadn’t been lit and walked straight into the shallow end fully clothed. It still haunts me. I remember trying to get out as if no one would notice.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

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