Kelly Hoppen: How would you describe yourself in three words? — FLAPSS

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How would you describe yourself in three words?

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Kelly Hoppen

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Fiercely loyal, funny, easy-going. I’m sure my daughter and stepdaughters wouldn’t agree with the last bit, but I think I am.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

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Natural, caring, thoughtful.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 30 September 2023 source ↗

Funny, loyal, genuine.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 September 2025 source ↗

Curious, kind and frustrating – because I ask too many questions.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 October 2025 source ↗

One handsome dude.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 24 May 2025 source ↗

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Question Which moment embarrassed you most? Failure & regret

Years ago in a safari park in South Africa, and getting all dressed up for dinner. Walking across the lawn, I didn’t realise there was a swimming pool that hadn’t been lit and walked straight into the shallow end fully clothed. It still haunts me. I remember trying to get out as if no one would notice.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

Question Which book are you ashamed not to have read? Taste & recommendation

All of them. I’m not someone who can sit down and read – I wish I could.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

Question What is the trait you most deplore in others? Values & belief

I can’t bear people who lie.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

Question What has been your biggest disappointment? Failure & regret

I had an opportunity many years ago to move to America and be given a daytime TV show. The kids were quite young and I decided not to, but looking back I wish I had done it.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

Question What is the most important lesson life has taught you? Time & hindsight

Living life to the full, not having regrets and not trying to plan your future too much. Just enjoy every minute.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

Question Who most deserves an apology from you, and why? Failure & regret

My mum. I was horrendous growing up – I was always arguing with her.

Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗

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