Do the secret thing you know you were born to do.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 April 2026 source ↗
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That it’s impossible to persuade other people of the value of the lessons that life has taught you.
Not really. I thought that getting the Nobel Prize was a big interruption in my career, I thought and it was very distracting. It takes a lot of time you know, it just takes time to be honoured, you have to travel and you have to give speeches of things you have, oh it’s so often that you get bored to tears when you hear your own voice. And it’s really taking a lot of your time and there’s no way that during this time you can start something new, I mean you just profit from what you’ve done and there is no time to develop new ideas.
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To myself for diminishing my gut feelings until quite recently.
When I realised that I could get myself through anything that came my way.
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Someone to clean my apartment.
In my 20s I was in a show called The Unauthorised Autobiography of Samantha Brown. The actor who played my dad messed up his lines and it made me laugh so hard that I ended up peeing my pants.
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