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1990 FA Cup final, playing for Crystal Palace.
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What period or moment in your life brought you the most joy?Originally asked
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Sarah Parish
English actress
In the first month of my second daughter Nell’s life. My first daughter, Ella-Jayne, was born with a serious heart defect so I didn’t get to just be a mum, I was a carer for the eight months of her life and lived in a hospital. When Nell was born, having a healthy child and being able to be a mum was incredible.
Olivia Williams
British actress
People are often traumatised by the sleeplessness in the first years of their children’s lives, but I was insanely happy to be married and have two children. The only dark cloud was how much we were loathed for having babies who slept through the night.
Jane Asher
English actress and author
The early family skiing holidays – before I’d broken an ankle and Gerald had torn a ligament – were just wonderful.
Bobby Gillespie
Singer and songwriter
Standing on stage in between Robert Young and Andrew Innes, blasting away.
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