I was very ill with anorexia when I was a teenager. I went into hospital voluntarily, otherwise they were going to section me.
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View all 210 →Five years ago, a concrete plug, a little bigger than a baseball, fell off a building on Hollywood Boulevard when I was riding in an open convertible. It shattered the windshield. It really shook me. I still have it on my mantel.
Rolling a quad bike.
A flight from Paraguay to South Africa that went badly wrong. The plane nearly fell out of the sky and the oxygen masks dropped. People were screaming but the pilot saved the day, and then apparently never flew again.
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I’m at my happiest in the ocean, and even better if my husband is there throwing me around.
Running out of time.
Too high an expectation of others and myself.
Like a very full heart and a flip in my stomach when I see him.
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