When I was five and the doctors walked in and said to my mum: “I am not sure if you will be taking him home.”
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View all 215 →When I had cancer. I was having a shave and thought: “Are you meant to have a big hard lump on one side of your neck?”
I think I had a close shave with the taxi driver John Worboys. I was in Soho and going back to Chiswick where I lived, and I got a black cab. This guy wouldn’t stop talking and he offered me champagne, and I said: “I don’t like champagne.” It went a bit quiet and I thought I’d offended him. Then I remember going: “Hang on a minute, you shouldn’t be drinking champagne if you’re driving.” And he said: “I’ve just won the lottery and I’m finished after this.” I had a lucky escape.
Abseiling down a cliff for Doc Martin in a suit, carrying a medical bag.
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Holding the hand of some random lady at an airport who I mistook for my wife, Shara.
Caring too much about what others think.
For my dad not to have known our boys.
When it’s just us as a family on our island hideaway in Wales.
Too controlling about silly things like timings or not having toxic cleaning products in the house.
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