Right now. The past has gone.
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View all 577 →I’ve been happy all my life.
In the one photo I’ve seen where my smile looks convincing – I’m four years old, so I’m guessing then. But I just won a Bafta and that felt amazing, too. So, roughly every 40 years.
I would like to say right now, but probably childhood – though even that may be wrong, so I'll say six weeks ago walking in the Lakes.
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View profile →In my dreams: I’ll feel as if I am falling towards a white light and then suddenly I wake up.
I would be much more available for my brother when he was not well and try to understand more about mental health, which I didn’t know anything about at the time.
People close to me throwing me under a bus for a crust.
Dancing was in my bones from when I started ballet at two.
We’ve Only Just Begun by The Carpenters.
Getting the job on Strictly at the age of 56.
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