English actor
Recorded · The Guardian · 2019
I think I’ve only really experienced it on a parental level, and it feels like the rhythm of nature.
Relationships
Love, friendship & family
Five questions about who formed you, what friends are for, love, parenting, and who you turn to.
5 questions, 354 quoted from what public figures said elsewhere, each with its source. Every question is asked in FLAPSS wording — nobody answers as anybody else.
Worth reading
How would you describe what love feels like to you?
Recorded · The Guardian · 2024
Love is comfort and warmth, being accepted as you are.
Recorded · The Guardian · 2025
A dog bounding through the grass on a summer’s day chasing a squirrel.
Every question in this questionnaire
- Which teacher, parent, coach, or friend most made you who you are, and what did you learn from them? 57
- Which quality in your friends matters most to you? 65
- How would you describe what love feels like to you? 213
- What has been most rewarding about being a parent? 7
- When you need counsel, who is the first person you call? 12
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