Who do you turn to when you need advice?

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Vogue, to one guest at a time, on camera, 73 Questions

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Recorded Reid Hoffman said elsewhere, not written here
Well, that all comes from your network. And so even today with, well over 300 million people on LinkedIn, most people have yet to learn how to use their network, in order to ally with their network, in order to find the right economic opportunities. And that’s one of the things that I’m still working on.

Academy of Achievement, Academy of Achievement interview, Mountain View, California, 1 April 2012 source ↗

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François Ozon Film director and screenwriter
But I need to show my work during the process. In the editing room, very often I invite friends and I do some test screenings with friends or people I know: editors, journalists sometimes. I ask them, Is it boring? Is it too long? What do you think?
Recorded Filmmaker Magazine, March 2013 source ↗
Cheryl Strayed Author of Wild and Tiny Beautiful Things
I also think that most of us get wisdom from a wide range of sources, from the people we know and love, from strangers on the street, from therapists and counselors, from teachers, from books, from podcasts, so I turn in all of those directions.
Recorded Tim Ferriss, The Tim Ferriss Show, The Blog of Author Tim Ferriss, 22 June 2018 source ↗
Kiri Te Kanawa Opera singer
Totally. I’d say parents, brothers, sisters, and don’t go far beyond that for the moment. If you’ve had a long-term relationship with an agent, that’s a whole different thing, because that agent is there to care.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, The Metropolitan Opera House, New York City, 9 April 2008 source ↗
Norman Schwarzkopf United States Army general; commander of coalition forces in the 1991 Gulf War
My wife, my children, my friends, myself. I’m my own strongest critic. I am much tougher on myself than anybody I know, consistently.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, Las Vegas, Nevada, 26 June 1992 source ↗

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Question What purchase of $100 or less has most positively impacted your life in the last six months? Money & investment
This is going to sound a little strange, but my trainer started recommending that I add moringa leaf powder to my tea. That’s actually added a rich antioxidant, anti inflammatory and a little bit more substance such that drinking tea now feels a little bit like a snack and is super healthy.
Recorded Tim Ferriss, The Tim Ferriss Show podcast, 1 June 2018 source ↗
Question What advice would you give your twenty-year-old self, and what should they ignore? Time & hindsight
The challenge of a big, over-arching vision is that it's hard to know where to start. And your biggest opportunity will change from year to year. Technology changes. Competition changes. You change. My advice: Just start. Find a single unmet need that nudges the world closer to where you believe it's going. And if you hit a dead end, pivot.
Recorded Hoffman's own Medium publication, Reid Hoffman on Medium source ↗
Question What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession or area of expertise? Craft & work
Our culture lionizes entrepreneurs who navigate daring switchbacks in their career. Steve Jobs was admired not just for Apple, but also his detour to found Pixar. Elon Musk is revered for helming Tesla AND SpaceX. But don't be distracted by other people's winding paths. I believe you should celebrate your single-mindedness, and stick to your own overarching idea — for as long as it holds your own fascination. In my experience, that could last your entire career.
Recorded Hoffman's own Medium publication, Reid Hoffman on Medium source ↗

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