My mum. I was horrendous growing up – I was always arguing with her.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗
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My mum. I was horrendous growing up – I was always arguing with her.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 September 2024 source ↗
I’d like to say sorry to my mother. I had to choose between my parents, and I chose my father because he didn’t have any other kids. (My mother was a war widow and had two children from her first marriage.) I thought, in a childish way, that one had to be fair. It was very difficult for my mother and me, and we never really got over it.
My parents, for my new show.
The people I never thanked for what they selflessly gave me in my career; when I was younger I just took it for granted.
My younger self. I told myself so often that I was not good enough, that I was not smart enough, that I was not interesting enough, that I was boring and ugly. I wasn’t kind to my body, and I did and said things to myself that I would never do or say to a friend.
Years ago in a safari park in South Africa, and getting all dressed up for dinner. Walking across the lawn, I didn’t realise there was a swimming pool that hadn’t been lit and walked straight into the shallow end fully clothed. It still haunts me. I remember trying to get out as if no one would notice.
“Your cooking sucks” – before I learned to cook in Covid.
I can’t bear people who lie.
I don’t know and I don’t really care, because I’ll be dead, so it won’t really matter.
I had an opportunity many years ago to move to America and be given a daytime TV show. The kids were quite young and I decided not to, but looking back I wish I had done it.
Living life to the full, not having regrets and not trying to plan your future too much. Just enjoy every minute.
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