What is the trait you most deplore in others?

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Recorded Alice Waters said elsewhere, not written here
A lack of generosity. It can take so many forms—it doesn’t just have to do with money—so I’m always shocked when people can’t muster any at all.

Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, July 2021 source ↗

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Maggie O'Farrell Irish-British novelist
Interrupting or talking over people. As a stammerer, I am particularly alert to this.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 March 2023 source ↗
Ina Garten Cookery writer and shop owner
Lying on the sofa watching old episodes of Law & Order all day.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, September 2016 source ↗

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Question What is the part of your job that people would be surprised is most of your job? Craft & work
I decided that my attention would be in the dining room. I haven’t cooked in 28 years at Chez Panisse. ... I didn’t intend to be out of the kitchen. ... Now I’m in a different world and I contribute to the collaboration of the kitchen and I’m always working with a group of colleagues who inspire me, but I really miss being actually in the solving of the performance, that effort to really come up with dishes that are delicious and right.
Recorded Terry Gross, NPR, Fresh Air, NPR (Fresh Air), 22 August 2011 source ↗
Question What are you unwilling to optimise? Values & belief
There’s no such thing as cheap food. It can be affordable, but it can never be cheap. I think that’s something we’ve been indoctrinated by fast food culture to believe, that it can be cheap – that it can be fast, cheap, and easy. But every culture since the beginning of time has thought of food as something precious, and that’s the way I think about it. I want to give my money to the people who take care of the land, and who grow that food.
Recorded Earth Island Journal, Earth Island Journal interview, 1 January 2015 source ↗

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