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What is the trait you most deplore in others?

197 answers answered between 1974 and 2026 one of 25 in The Q&A

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Richard Feynman Theoretical physicist; Nobel laureate in Physics, 1965
I would like to add something that’s not essential to the science, but something I kind of believe, which is that you should not fool the layman when you’re talking as a scientist.
Recorded Caltech commencement address, Engineering and Science / Caltech Magazine, 1974 source ↗
Selfishness—people who don’t care about others or their feelings and will do or say anything as long as they get what they want.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, November 2001 source ↗
Charlie Munger Vice chairman of Berkshire Hathaway, 1978–2023
Generally speaking, envy, resentment, revenge, and self-pity are disastrous modes of thought. Self-pity gets pretty close to paranoia and paranoia is one of the very hardest things to reverse. You do not want to drift into self-pity.
Recorded USC Gould School of Law commencement, 2007, Speakola, 2007 source ↗
Mike Skinner English rapper
People who judge other people's actions on their own thought process.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 24 January 2009 source ↗
To be dishonest. Sometimes people have to be dishonest in order not to hurt, but if someone is basically dishonest, that is a different matter.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, March 2010 source ↗
Yogi Berra Baseball catcher and manager; ten-time World Series winner with the New York Yankees
Talking too much.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, April 2010 source ↗
Serially telling endless boring jokes and sexism and racism and homophobia (they often go together).
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, September 2010 source ↗
Rafael Nadal Spanish professional tennis player, 2001–2024
Selfishness and no respect for the others.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, October 2010 source ↗

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