Vindictiveness and spite.
What trait do you most dislike in other people?
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Taking fucking forever. Can’t you see I’m waiting?
People who are not self-aware.
People who can’t hear other points of view. Absolute certainty always scares me a little.
That they think they know it all.
People who barge into a lift instead of standing aside for anyone exiting should be dipped in kerosene and fired into the sun.
Comparing themselves to other people.
Their inability to deal with my disorganisation.
People who aren’t polite.
Greed, lack of empathy. Same thing.
Those who create the doom.
Jealousy. It’s the thief of joy.
Certainty. I also can’t stand it when someone calls you and then says, “Wait, I need to put my headphones in.”
Superiority. I shrink when I’m around people who act superior, whether it’s due to authority or intellect. I almost become mute.
Careless cruelty.
Snobbishness, superiority, condescension.
When they ruin my story because they think theirs is better, so butt in before I’ve finished mine.
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