I might speed up a few details, but wouldn’t change anything, other than my dad still being here.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 May 2017 source ↗
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I might speed up a few details, but wouldn’t change anything, other than my dad still being here.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 May 2017 source ↗
My mother and my brother would still be alive. So much of my life has been coping with the grief of losing them.
I would have tried that anti-stretch mark cream during pregnancy.
I’d swap out a few boyfriends.
I wouldn’t have tried to break up a fight when I was 17.
My father’s death before my marriage and motherhood.
The fact that at least 300,000 women die every year from pregnancy and childbirth-related issues that are largely preventable.
The birth of my daughter.
Before kids, when I was 13 or so, on the back of my horse, running at full speed in an open pasture. Post kids, happiness happens often, but in more subtle ways. I now prefer the word “content”.
A midwife named Jennie Joseph. She is a tireless activist for women, family health and equal access to quality maternity care.
To strangers. Living in New York, I see individuals every day who are invisible to so many. I want to say sorry that so many of us think their pain and suffering is not our own.
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