First of all, to be in love. The second way of being very happy is to be able to get the best out of yourself, whatever it is.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 1 March 2010 source ↗
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First of all, to be in love. The second way of being very happy is to be able to get the best out of yourself, whatever it is.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 1 March 2010 source ↗
Being surrounded by my friends and family. Just listening to them interacting, laughing, sharing. It is the culmination of everything I could have hoped for.
Probably being granted all-access to a Disney theme park with my husband, David, and a group of close friends—and just us—while we wandered and drank tropical tiki drinks. No judgment, no lines, no bad weather, and no hangovers. Oh, and our twins would be there too, but only when they’re happy and meltdown-free. I guess the same would go for David.
A sudden summer breeze on a hot afternoon.
Being together with the ones I love on a Wednesday afternoon, washing the dishes, taking the garbage to the bin under a gray sky, hearing the distant sounds of children from upstairs, turning around and suddenly looking into the eyes of the one I love. It is the feeling of being alive I’m talking about. And of being in love.
To be abandoned.
In the mountains, climbing into beautiful places—anything that has to do with nature. I feel best in nature or near nature. And I was most happy, of course, when I was with my husband and we were in beautiful landscapes.
To be dishonest. Sometimes people have to be dishonest in order not to hurt, but if someone is basically dishonest, that is a different matter.
My inferiority complex.
Mandela. Also, artists and painters. I admire people who are creative.
Herman Wouk, Keith McNally, Damian Lewis, Dustin Hoffman, Martin Scorsese, Carrie Brownstein
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