What is the most rewarding part of being a parent?

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I’m much much closer to my children than my father was to me, and I would hope that the quality of love I’ve given them is different from the quality my father gave me.

Jasper Rees, Q&A, The Arts Desk, 10 October 2009 source ↗

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Frances Arnold Chemical engineer; Nobel laureate in Chemistry, 2018
He says that he has the job of his dreams, which is the greatest joy that I can feel, is to have my child say he has the job of his dreams.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, Pasadena, California, 18 January 2019 source ↗
Alan Shepard Naval aviator and astronaut; the first American in space and the fifth person to walk on the Moon
We always tried to share experiences with them. It was a little more difficult for them after the astronaut business, but they’ve responded well. All three are happily married, with their youngsters. And they’re not just happy homemakers. They’re all involved in little projects of their own, because they are challenged by wanting to help local charities, or wanting to start a business. I think they have turned out reasonably well.
Recorded Houston, Texas, Academy of Achievement, 1 February 1991 source ↗
You have kids and you’re forced to remember that time actually extends. The world extends, policy extends, stakes extend past your own life.
Recorded Ticia Almazan, profile interview, Vogue Philippines, 28 February 2025 source ↗
Ethan Hawke Actor, director and novelist
I love being a father. I think there’s a great lie that we tell kids that pleasure creates happiness. Young people think: “Oh, if I get this, I’ll be happy.” But in a lot of ways it’s meeting your responsibilities that makes you happy. For me, I’ve just found that feeling like I’ve done a good job with the kids is a real source of happiness for me.
Recorded The Talks, 16 May 2012 source ↗

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