There are one or two relationships where I’d see the red flags much earlier.
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There are one or two relationships where I’d see the red flags much earlier.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 March 2026 source ↗
I wouldn’t marry anybody until I met Anna.
I would have been a better listener. I would have pursued more friendships instead of focusing so much on work and myself. I’m doing all that now, but I’m running out of time.
I’d change my mindset and not be so hard on myself, and impart the knowledge that other people’s intentions aren’t always as well-meaning as my own.
But the market was changing. The industry was changing. The scale was changing. And in the end we knew we would be either the last company to make it or the first to not make it. We were right on the edge. We thought we would be the last one that made it, but we were wrong. We were the first one that didn't. We put an end to the companies that tried to do that. We certainly made our fair share of mistakes, but in the end I think we should have taken a bit longer to realize the world was changing and just gone on to be a software company right off the bat.
A fighter pilot.
I was happiest in every aspect of my life in the 1990s, when I was married to Paddy [King, a management consultant] and we had the two children and my mum lived with us, and Countdown was the biggest show on Channel 4.
Independent, curious and funny.
I still say yes to too many things.
Living in a campervan for a week with Timmy Mallett for a children’s TV show about 40 years ago.
Like I would die for them in a nanosecond.
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