There are one or two relationships where I’d see the red flags much earlier.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 March 2026 source ↗
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
There are one or two relationships where I’d see the red flags much earlier.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 March 2026 source ↗
The bits that consumed me with guilt.
Since hostile people still call me a former Playboy Bunny, even at 82, I probably shouldn’t have done that in my youth, even to write an exposé. And since a couple of times they’ve also referred to me as a former CIA agent, because I went to two Soviet-era communist youth festivals, I probably shouldn’t have done that, either. Yet if I hadn’t done both, I might have judged other people by such empty symbols, too.
When I was working hard, I was going so fast that I didn’t absorb a lot.
I wouldn’t change a thing. Every experience is a lesson learned.
I was happiest in every aspect of my life in the 1990s, when I was married to Paddy [King, a management consultant] and we had the two children and my mum lived with us, and Countdown was the biggest show on Channel 4.
My aeroplane, a Diamond DA42. It’s a twin-engine aircraft and I bought her brand new to fly around the world solo. Very sadly my mum was diagnosed with terminal cancer about six weeks before I was due to take off, in May 2017, and she died early June. After that, I lost interest in doing it.
I still say yes to too many things.
Like I would die for them in a nanosecond.
A fighter pilot.
Independent, curious and funny.
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