The boozing. I started on rum as a child.
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Forgetting. Or, worse yet, not recognizing who my real friends are.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, January 2010 source ↗
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I am a massive people-pleaser and it brings me nothing but trouble.
Fay Ripley
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Being judgmental.
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The absence of fear, and the recognition that we are all on this ship of fools together. We may in fact go to the big ship’s Art Deco bar and have a glass of champagne, toasting our foibles.
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