My tendency to be avoidant.
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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Sometimes I follow my instincts more than my reason.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, July 2013 source ↗
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the natural tendency to solidify a narrative that makes you look good
Increasing forgetfulness.
Self-doubt and a reoccurring fear that people would prefer the other Alfred Molina.
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View profile →I’m defined as a very strong woman. I don’t identify myself with a specific figure, but I do greatly admire people who manage to persevere with humility through great difficulties.
I don’t like false or opportunistic people.
I honestly don’t have a particular fear. We must live life without limits, and fear can become a limit.
I would like to be less impulsive.
The ability to be themselves rather than hiding behind a mask.
Happiness is a journey that depends solely on ourselves. We should be grateful to life because so much that it has in store for us will be marvelous and we have the good fortune to live it.
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