When I “poll the audience” and my need to please others.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 12 October 2024 source ↗
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Worrying at things.
Sometimes I wrote off my own failings as just another example of the world trying to keep a black man down. I had a tendency sometimes to make excuses for me not doing the right thing.
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View profile →Failure, being caught out, making an idiot of myself.
I’ve had motorcycle accidents – I had one where I ended up in intensive care. But if you are on a frontline – which I have been – and people start shooting at you – which they have done – you put yourself in quite considerable danger. So: on a moving frontline in northern Afghanistan in 2001.
We become fertiliser.
Warm and embracing.
Funny, impatient, annoying.
Arrogance and narcissism.
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