When the kids were babies.
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View all 577 →When I turned 30, married and had a place in Brixton. My flailing twenties were over, though the flailing continues.
Visiting my children at college. I don't stay long, because their lives are so busy - the way they should be.
When I hit 40. I made a lot of mistakes in my 20s and spent most of my 30s changing nappies.
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View profile →Making a gourmet dinner with my husband, Tom, then just hanging out with our four children, their spouses, and our delightful grandchildren.
To be more outgoing. I love being home, but sometimes I feel guilty that I like it too much.
Procrastination ... getting overwhelmed ... getting stuck.
Arrogance and a lack of respect for others.
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