Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?

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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Recorded Whoopi Goldberg said elsewhere, not written here
I can be a huge asshole, not very nice. Doesn’t happen very often, but when it happens, it’s not attractive.

Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, September 2015 source ↗

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Bruno Tonioli Italian choreographer
I don’t think anyone should deplore anything about themselves. You can always improve things, but by deploring you’re putting yourself on a losing streak.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 April 2023 source ↗
Impatience. I’m not very good at waiting around or dealing with things that aren’t moving at a pace that I want them to.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 March 2026 source ↗
I can’t stand the way my voice will crack if I’m making a speech. I hate public speaking and the emotion it dredges up.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, June 2025 source ↗

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