Mean-spiritedness and the inability to set and respect boundaries.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, June 2018 source ↗
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Mean-spiritedness and the inability to set and respect boundaries.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, June 2018 source ↗
People who pretend to have perfect marriages. Perfect marriages are like orgasms – many of them are faked.
Incompetent leadership.
Not having the ability to say sorry when they’re wrong.
Freeloaders with a sense of entitlement.
At the SAG awards in 2016. I remember going into that night saying to myself, “I might not be here again; let me be fully in the moment.” The cast of Orange Is the New Black won the acting-ensemble award for the second year in a row, and I was there with a man I truly loved. That night was everything I had always dreamed about.
Cuddling in bed on a Sunday morning with the man I love. Also, applause and standing ovations.
Thinking that I am not enough or not beautiful the way I am. That thinking is super-dangerous.
Being homeless.
Thinking that I am less-than. That thinking is cunning, baffling, and insidious, and I must guard against it every hour of every day.
Leontyne Price gives me life. She broke racial barriers with inimitable poise, grace, and excellence, as well as unbelievable focus and vision.
Adam Kay, Bear Grylls, Charles Collingwood, Adrian Dunbar, Bonnie Raitt, Natalie Imbruglia
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