By my friends and loved ones as someone who loved ferociously and always had their back.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 12 July 2025 source ↗
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By my friends and loved ones as someone who loved ferociously and always had their back.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 12 July 2025 source ↗
Just remembered will do.
For making a difference.
As a complex and brilliant man.
As a nice person who always put others before myself. I’d also like my own posthumous tartan.
Double-glazing sales when I was about 16 – on the phone, cold calling. Horrendous.
I was 17 and about to go on a first date with my first boyfriend. I was so desperate for my mum not to meet him that I was trying to get to the door before she did. I ran down the stairs as she opened it, and slid down the last five steps on my arse.
All the times I was mean to someone.
Being able to cram the quality of eight hours’ sleep into four.
Worry about the things you can control and don’t worry about the things you can’t.
Self-flagellation.
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