I’ve not always been great friend material. I’ve tried to get better at that, so to be remembered as reliable by a few would be great.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 May 2026 source ↗
The question
How would you want people to remember you?Originally asked
Vogue, to one guest at a time, on camera, 73 Questions
A recurring legacy prompt in Vogue's 73 Questions, appearing with only minor wording changes.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
I’ve not always been great friend material. I’ve tried to get better at that, so to be remembered as reliable by a few would be great.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 May 2026 source ↗
As someone who did what he could with what he had.
As Tilda Swinton in a fat suit.
I don’t care if I am remembered or not.
As a charming, helpful, solicitous, generous, loving, carefree and constantly funny companion, lover and father. Some hope of that.
Putting chocolate mousse in my agent’s face. Somebody had done it to me – that thing where they go, “Smell this, it smells funny”, and then they put it in your nose. A year later I was in this French restaurant with a very 1980s-style dessert trolley and, before I knew it, I had a bowl of chocolate mousse in front of me. And my agent went, “What’s that smell?”, and it felt impossible not to … I immediately felt awful and tried to apologise. He, of course, said that he found it funny. But I knew he didn’t.
A running accident when I was 14 or 15. I fainted but I was a bit of a jester and they thought I was taking the piss, so I was left for a bit. I woke up in hospital.
Steady, reaching, bewildered.
Having regrets and not knowing what to do about them.
It’s usually a slight feeling that, having got through the day, I didn’t get any time to do any writing or something creative – it was a lot of admin, exhaustion from that and rumination.
A movie. Does it have a name? It might do.
Edith Bowman, Joanne Froggatt, Steph McGovern, Kiell Smith-Bynoe, Randy Pausch, Milton Jones
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