Nothing’s guaranteed and things change in an instant, and to get used to that and stay in the moment.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Minimum effort, maximum satisfaction. That’s the way everyone should live.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 December 2022 source ↗
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That your life is only in this very second.
That life is tough and unfair; that life is beautiful.
Your lowest moment is temporary.
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I wanted to be a footballer at first, like any other Neapolitan kid.
I would have spent more time with my parents. I did see them often, but you don’t realise how much you’ll miss someone or something until it’s gone.
I am always very happy in Sardinia with my family; I spend at least six months of the year there. Six months working and six months relaxing – I think that is a great balance.
That Italy didn’t qualify for the World Cup this year.
Overcooking pasta for my Italian family in Napoli – they would kill me.
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