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I never dwell on them.
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David Jason
English actor
At the time, not landing the role of Lance-Corporal Jones in Dad’s Army, but it all worked out fine in the long run.
Jenny Agutter
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When I was 14 I went up for Juliet with Zeffirelli and I was hugely disappointed that I didn’t get that.
My wife and I were meant to meet Frank Sinatra before he went on stage in Hamburg. But there was a taxi-drivers’ strike and we were too late.
Ed Balls
British broadcaster and politician
That my competitive pole vault career ended at the age of 15.
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I had a cardiac arrest in 2010. I also had a close call in the early days in Cardiff when I was in a band called the Denims. We were in a van driving along a narrow mountain road. Somebody wanted to go to the toilet, so we stopped, and afterwards the driver took a wrong turn and we went careering down the mountain. Everyone was screaming, it was like a nightmare. At the bottom was the railway line, but the van stopped just in time. We were very lucky.
You only get out what you put in. Karma – it all comes round.
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