The time I told my father I hated him, causing him a lot of pain. He passed away six years ago, and my mother eight years ago.
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View all 203 →Nothing. Tony Benn, one of my favourite politicians, said, “I don’t care where you’ve been, I care where you’re going.”
Nothing. Everything has led me to who and where I am now.
So many times I’ve wondered what might have happened to me if I had lost my legs, or even just my right one, where my first melanoma appeared two or three years later. If I’d just been a second slower stepping away from the car, I might not be dying now. I’d be legless, of course, but still in good health. Of these fateful forks in the road are our lives made up. We are all just a millimetre away from death, all of the time, if only we knew it.
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He passed away a few months ago: Muhammad Ali.
My parents, because growing up you think you know more than they do.
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