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Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
A fixed Vanity Fair Proust Questionnaire item asked across its three-decade archive, with independent variants in friendship and profile interviews.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Knowing when to show up and when to go home.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 2 March 2018 source ↗
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View all 65 →Forbearance with my chronic tardiness.
Humor. Laughing with my girlfriends is one of my great joys.
Seeing and being seen.
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View profile →Quickly, without warning, maybe even in my sleep, and while we're putting in requests: before I lose my mind and my ability to gallop across the countryside on horseback.
The loss of a child.
Reading. And, in particular, reading on the deck of the cabin while my children play in the river below.
On the island of Bequia—one summer, out of the blue, a benefactor (thank you, Charlene) flew our entire family there and put us up in a cliffside house that was a weird mixture of Gaudí and Fred Flintstone and where we went to sleep at eight and got up at five. In between we read, swam, hiked, and unknowingly enjoyed the last moment before the irrevocable shear of adolescence set in.
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