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If you could alter one thing about yourself, what would it be?

Originally asked

Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire

Verbatim recurring item in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire; two publisher-hosted respondent pages establish institutional recurrence.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

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Derek Sivers

Founder of CD Baby; author of Anything You Want

Recorded said elsewhere, not written here
So for years I kept calling myself an entrepreneur until one day I realized like, wait a second, this is expired! Like somebody who is an athlete in high school can’t keep calling himself an athlete forever.

Tim Ferriss, The Tim Ferriss Show podcast, 23 April 2023 source ↗

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Patti Smith Musician, poet and photographer
I would love to have a better sense of physical balance.
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 24 July 2024 source ↗
I would erase my fear of dying, but I suppose that would be erasing some of my human condition.
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 18 February 2025 source ↗
Melissa Etheridge Singer, songwriter and guitarist
Again, not gonna change anything about myself. I’ve really learned to appreciate everything. Okay, maybe I’d be taller. How about that?
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 5 September 2023 source ↗

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Question What made you stop something you were known for, and how did you know it was time? Time & hindsight
I read that at a key fork in the road moment for me where I just sold CD Baby and had a ton of money. I was like, “What to do now?” And I read this book from this filthy rich old man being entirely honest, and I thought I should just learn from his experience. ... So if what I’m doing seems weird, it’s because I took his advice to heart and I’ve quit the game.
Recorded Tim Ferriss, The Tim Ferriss Show podcast, 23 April 2023 source ↗
Question When did you first understand what enough meant for you? Values & belief
When I decided to sell my company, I already had enough. I live simply. I don't own a house, a car, or even a TV. The less I own, the happier I am. The lack of stuff gives me the priceless freedom to live anywhere anytime. So I didn't need or even want the money from the sale of the company. I just wanted to make sure I had enough for a simple comfortable life.
Recorded Essay on sive.rs, Derek Sivers, 4 December 2009 source ↗
Question What is one of the best investments you have made — of money, time, or energy? Money & investment
When I decided to sell my company, I already had enough. I live simply. I don’t own a house, a car, or even a TV. The less I own, the happier I am. The lack of stuff gives me the priceless freedom to live anywhere anytime. So I didn’t need or even want the money from the sale of the company. I just wanted to make sure I had enough for a simple comfortable life. The rest should go to music education, since that’s what made such a difference in my life.
Recorded Essay on sive.rs, Derek Sivers, 4 December 2009 source ↗
Question What are you unwilling to optimise? Values & belief
Do you have a big visionary master plan for how the world will work in twenty years? Do you have massive ambitions to revolutionize your industry? Don’t feel bad if you don’t. I never did. A year and a half after starting CD Baby, it was just me and John, my first employee, running it out of my house. One night, I decided I should think more about the long-term future of this thing. I sat with my diary for a few hours of introspection. Afterwards, I wrote John an email that went like this: “I think there’s a chance that this thing might be huge one day, so we better start preparing for that now. I mean some day, we might have a thousand artists. We might need a third employee! We’d need three computers, and need to figure out how to network them together. We might even need to start moving CDs into the garage, since eventually they might fill up the living room. Yes, I know it sounds grandiose, but I think things are headed that way.” Years later, after I had 100,000 artists and 85 employees, John would often get a good laugh out of this letter I sent him in 1999. Journalists would ask, “What’s your long-term goal?” I’d say, “I don’t have one. I surpassed my goals long ago. I’m just trying to help musicians with whatever they need today.” So please don’t think you need a huge vision. Just stay focused on helping people today.
Recorded Essay on sive.rs, Derek Sivers, 14 July 2011 source ↗

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