If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

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Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire

Verbatim recurring item in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire; two publisher-hosted respondent pages establish institutional recurrence.

You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.

Recorded Derek Sivers said elsewhere, not written here
So for years I kept calling myself an entrepreneur until one day I realized like, wait a second, this is expired! Like somebody who is an athlete in high school can’t keep calling himself an athlete forever.

Tim Ferriss, The Tim Ferriss Show podcast, 23 April 2023 source ↗

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Malala Yousafzai Education campaigner; co-founder of the Malala Fund; United Nations Messenger of Peace
I'm trying to be more organized.
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 12 July 2019 source ↗
Melissa Etheridge Singer, songwriter and guitarist
Again, not gonna change anything about myself. I’ve really learned to appreciate everything. Okay, maybe I’d be taller. How about that?
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 5 September 2023 source ↗
I wish I always had the right word in the right moment at the right time and not two hours later in my car going home.
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 17 July 2025 source ↗
To be taller. I’ve been looking up at certain people all my life. If I was taller, I could look down and see them a lot better.
Recorded The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 25 November 2001 source ↗

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Question What made you decide to stop something you were known for, and how did you know it was time? Time & hindsight
I read that at a key fork in the road moment for me where I just sold CD Baby and had a ton of money. I was like, “What to do now?” And I read this book from this filthy rich old man being entirely honest, and I thought I should just learn from his experience. ... So if what I’m doing seems weird, it’s because I took his advice to heart and I’ve quit the game.
Recorded Tim Ferriss, The Tim Ferriss Show podcast, 23 April 2023 source ↗
Question What is one of the best or most worthwhile investments you have ever made — of money, time, or energy? Money & investment
When I decided to sell my company, I already had enough. I live simply. I don’t own a house, a car, or even a TV. The less I own, the happier I am. The lack of stuff gives me the priceless freedom to live anywhere anytime. So I didn’t need or even want the money from the sale of the company. I just wanted to make sure I had enough for a simple comfortable life. The rest should go to music education, since that’s what made such a difference in my life.
Recorded Essay on sive.rs, Derek Sivers, 4 December 2009 source ↗

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