Unselfishness. I like to surround myself with people who are kind and have feelings for others and their problems.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 25 November 2001 source ↗
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Which quality in your friends matters most to you?Originally asked
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Unselfishness. I like to surround myself with people who are kind and have feelings for others and their problems.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 25 November 2001 source ↗
Taking daily showers and always being there when I need them.
I think I value the same things everyone does—loyalty, a sense of humor, the ability to make campaign contributions.
Their willingness to have me as a friend.
Deep and complex thoughts delivered with a wicked sense of humor.
Being at peace with God.
In Macon, Georgia, during my childhood. I knew everybody there—it was like the whole town was your family. I felt complete there.
I don’t want to be lost and burn in hell.
To be taller. I’ve been looking up at certain people all my life. If I was taller, I could look down and see them a lot better.
Selfishness—people who don’t care about others or their feelings and will do or say anything as long as they get what they want.
Catherine O’Hara, Michael Douglas, Cecile Richards, Henry Winkler, John Malkovich, Elaine May
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