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The easiest thing for me to say would be comfort and at ease.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 September 2017 source ↗
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View profile →Aside from a car, it would be a guitar. I used to have almost 100, but now I am down to 22.
There have been moments when I’d want to say sorry to both my parents for some of the stuff I’ve done.
I’ve been lucky enough to act for 35 years. The only other job I had was as a cook at a drive-in restaurant, and I enjoyed that as well.
Some of my choices were mistakes, so I’d have to say myself.
I would take things a little slower.
I consider myself quite a happy person. One of the most exciting times was when Sarah was born.
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