I am happy now.
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Rob McGibbon, The Definite Article, Rob McGibbon, 27 August 2011 source ↗
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When I am working on something I really like, or when I am alone with my son playing in the garden.
When I was a kid, I ran everywhere, pretending I was in the Olympics, and would always sprint the last 20 yards home to win gold.
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View profile →I’m much much closer to my children than my father was to me, and I would hope that the quality of love I’ve given them is different from the quality my father gave me.
My university tutor Raymond Williams.
It will be great if the plays stay funny.
There is an awful lot of pious theatre at the moment, where you go to have what you already believed reinforced.
I don’t think I am either as ruthlessly selfish as I was then, but I think that unhappiness made me terribly terribly selfish.
I’ve been reading – and fighting – Maggie Nelson’s The Argonauts; feeling admiration and anger in equal parts.
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