Now. Five years ago, I started looking after myself a bit more, emotionally and spiritually, and it’s paid dividends.
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Now. Five years ago, I started looking after myself a bit more, emotionally and spiritually, and it’s paid dividends.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 January 2025 source ↗
When I am performing, and when my kids make musical mayhem.
On the island of Bequia—one summer, out of the blue, a benefactor (thank you, Charlene) flew our entire family there and put us up in a cliffside house that was a weird mixture of Gaudí and Fred Flintstone and where we went to sleep at eight and got up at five. In between we read, swam, hiked, and unknowingly enjoyed the last moment before the irrevocable shear of adolescence set in.
When I got a doctorate from my alma mater, Brunel. My mother always wanted me to become a doctor.
When I had my first kid and when I had my first big success with I Gotta Feeling.
It would be my mum. She was a terrible alcoholic and I spent a lot of my time kind of hating her but, in the past five years, I realised why she did what she did and I could forgive.
Manipulative greed and hate.
Big dick energy.
When my kids ask, “What happens when we die?” I say, “Do you remember the place you were in before you were born? I think we go back there.”
The Mona Lisa – I preferred the frame.
I like you but I wish you looked more like David Beckham.
Helena Bonham Carter, Tim Minchin, Chris O'Dowd, Paul Weller, Adrian Dunbar, Melanie Blatt
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