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Everything’s disappointing when it loses its shine. I’ve lowered my expectations.
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That my critics remain healthy, despite violent attacks of spleen.
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Many of the so-called celebs I've met.
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An adult, as quickly as possible. I wasn’t built for the psychological warfare of the playground.
My best mate had a healthy baby girl about 45 minutes ago and named her after me. My heart is bursting.
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