As someone who was kind.
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Vogue, to one guest at a time, on camera, 73 Questions
A recurring legacy prompt in Vogue's 73 Questions, appearing with only minor wording changes.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
To have made people healthier and happier.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 27 December 2025 source ↗
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As a kind person who cared for others.
By my friends and loved ones as someone who loved ferociously and always had their back.
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I wouldn’t because everything is connected with everything else.
A garden chair from the Chelsea flower show. It was almost the price of a small crappy car.
Optimistic, nurturing, enquiring.
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