Drowning. The feeling of not being able to take a breath. I’m sure my therapist would have something to say about the deep psychological reasons for it.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, February 2025 source ↗
The question
What do you fear most?Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
The exact prompt is fixed in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire and independently sustained in The Guardian's The Q&A over multiple decades.
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Drowning. The feeling of not being able to take a breath. I’m sure my therapist would have something to say about the deep psychological reasons for it.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, February 2025 source ↗
Losing one of my children, as there is no greater loss.
On my deathbed thinking I wish I would have done something that I didn’t do.
Climate change, duh.
That I’ll become a recluse with too many dogs.
On a beach, watching my girls do cartwheels, with a Goombay Smash with a floater on top.
Gloria Steinem.
Humor. Laughing with my girlfriends is one of my great joys.
I would erase my fear of dying, but I suppose that would be erasing some of my human condition.
Watching my girls laugh together. It is more short-lived than I’d like, but it does happen!
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