Sofia Coppola
American filmmaker and actress
Being stuck in a project that’s not challenging me, or true to my nature.
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Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
The exact prompt is fixed in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire and independently sustained in The Guardian's The Q&A over multiple decades.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Drowning. The feeling of not being able to take a breath. I’m sure my therapist would have something to say about the deep psychological reasons for it.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, February 2025 source ↗
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View all 256 →Slugs. And planetary annihilation.
Losing family, friends, and loved ones.
Roger Ebert
Film critic
Many readers have informed me that it is a tragic and dreary business to go into death without faith. I don’t feel that way. “Faith” is neutral. All depends on what is believed in. I have no desire to live forever. The concept frightens me. I am 69, have had cancer, will die sooner than most of those reading this. That is in the nature of things.
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View profile →Humor. Laughing with my girlfriends is one of my great joys.
I would erase my fear of dying, but I suppose that would be erasing some of my human condition.
On a beach, watching my girls do cartwheels, with a Goombay Smash with a floater on top.
Watching my girls laugh together. It is more short-lived than I’d like, but it does happen!
Gloria Steinem.
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