On a beach, watching my girls do cartwheels, with a Goombay Smash with a floater on top.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, February 2025 source ↗
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What period or moment in your life brought you the most joy?Originally asked
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On a beach, watching my girls do cartwheels, with a Goombay Smash with a floater on top.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, February 2025 source ↗
In my 60s. So many things that tortured me when I was younger have fallen away. Writing The Apology, the letter I wrote in my father’s voice, apologising for abusing me, has freed me from the last vestiges of anger, confusion, rancour and hate. It released me from a frame that had determined my life.
In 1978, working in France for a year. It was my first time working abroad.
When I was little kid, before I knew what worrying was about.
In college, meeting my wife and then having our first child, and marching together to bring down the walls of Jim Crow.
Drowning. The feeling of not being able to take a breath. I’m sure my therapist would have something to say about the deep psychological reasons for it.
Gloria Steinem.
I would erase my fear of dying, but I suppose that would be erasing some of my human condition.
Watching my girls laugh together. It is more short-lived than I’d like, but it does happen!
Humor. Laughing with my girlfriends is one of my great joys.
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