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Which trait in yourself do you like least?

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The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.

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Adam Kay British comedy writer, author, youtuber, comedian and former physician
Self-destruction.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 3 June 2023 source ↗
Erin O'Connor English model
I'm too diplomatic. I tend to edit my mind before I speak - it can be incredibly draining.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 1 March 2008 source ↗
Joyce Carol Oates Novelist, short story writer and essayist
If I had a trait that I truly deplored, I would work to erase or modify it…Probably, a lack of discipline. (Though people think that I write quickly, & don’t revise, quite the reverse is true.) To myself, I work very slowly & painstakingly, & am often frustrated by accomplishing so little. My friend Margaret Atwood has said that in the late afternoon she is likely to be overcome by a feeling of desperation that she has accomplished so little that day, & this is a feeling I share, often. It seems that I waste most of my time gazing out the window here at my (overgrown) garden; & when I am in Berkeley, where I spend about one-third of the year, I am forever gazing out the window toward the San Francisco Bay & a continually changing, always-beautiful sky.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, November 2018 source ↗
Kareem Abdul-Jabbar Basketball player and author
Laziness. After 30 years of being a disciplined athlete with an intensely tight schedule, I still can’t forgive myself for letting things slide.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, August 2020 source ↗

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