I’ve learned to give myself a break. Everyone should.

Being hard on myself. I don’t want to pass that on to my daughters, so I’m trying to stop.

I’m certainly not going to tell it here.

An “elastic” sense of time (fancy way of saying I am late a lot).

My college years, when everything was possible and I felt physically invulnerable.

Being surrounded by my friends and family. Just listening to them interacting, laughing, sharing. It is the culmination of everything I could have hoped for.

Loyalty. Not fawning, but a loyalty based on our shared love and history that fosters compassion and forgiveness.

Years ago, before I had my current manager, I was taken advantage of by people I’d trusted with my finances. That’s made me especially sensitive to the prospect of financial ruin. I’m constantly advising young athletes to be vigilant when it comes to whom you trust with your finances.

I had self doubts when I was a freshman in high school. I was 14 years old and not very mature, and there were a few incidents in my freshman year. I learned in a very competitive environment. The high school environment that I played in was very intense, and I learned how to be stoic and go out and compete.

Dishonesty. It destroys relationships. It’s something celebrities especially have to guard against because people are prone to tell you what they think you want to hear rather than the truth.