What is the trait you most deplore in others?

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Dishonesty. It destroys relationships. It’s something celebrities especially have to guard against because people are prone to tell you what they think you want to hear rather than the truth.

Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, August 2020 source ↗

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Joyce Carol Oates Novelist, short story writer and essayist
Amid so much blatant cruelty in our political situation, such shocking indifference to the lives & welfare of those living at the margins of an affluent society, I think it must be this institutionalized cruelty, & the hypocrisy that surrounds it. “Making America great again”—for whom? Wealthy white people? The word “deplore” is particularly relevant here.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, November 2018 source ↗
Seth Meyers American comedian and TV host
Taking fucking forever. Can’t you see I’m waiting?
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, January 2015 source ↗
Charlie Munger Vice chairman of Berkshire Hathaway, 1978–2023
Generally speaking, envy, resentment, revenge, and self-pity are disastrous modes of thought. Self-pity gets pretty close to paranoia and paranoia is one of the very hardest things to reverse. You do not want to drift into self-pity.
Recorded USC Gould School of Law commencement, 2007, Speakola, 2007 source ↗

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I don’t think that is tough, because if you have an idea of something meaningful to communicate, you can move forward on that. You might not be successful in communicating what you want to communicate, but at least you have an idea of something that needs to be said, or something that you think should be said, and I think you go from there.
Recorded Academy of Achievement source ↗

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