People who think they’re always right.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
The inability to stop talking about themselves when they’re not being interviewed.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, September 2012 source ↗
Others on this question
View all 197 →Superiority. I shrink when I’m around people who act superior, whether it’s due to authority or intellect. I almost become mute.
Lying. Let’s not call it “untruthful.” Or “factually inaccurate.” I don’t even call it bullshit, because I like bulls. And bulls need to shit. So you can’t hold that against them. Let’s call it what it is: lying.
People taking themselves seriously.
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A glass of wine, a good dinner with my husband, and a day ahead of me without a deadline is close enough.
Their willingness to put up with my endless explanations about why I can’t see them because I’m under deadline.
Swiftly, painlessly, and old.
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