Always sleep on any decision.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 16 August 2025 source ↗
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What lesson has mattered most in your life?Originally asked
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Always sleep on any decision.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 16 August 2025 source ↗
Live in the moment. Enjoy life because time cruelly speeds up as you get older and becomes scarily finite.
You have to ride the wave and never wait for it to be calm, because it never will be.
Yes. I'm not unhappy about becoming old. I'm not unhappy about what must be. It makes me cry only when I see my friends go before me and life is emptied. I don't believe in an afterlife, but I still fully expect to see my brother again. ... But, you know, there's something I'm finding out as I'm aging that I am in love with the world. And I look right now, as we speak together, out my window in my studio and I see my trees and my beautiful, beautiful maples that are hundreds of years old, they're beautiful. And you see I can see how beautiful they are. I can take time to see how beautiful they are. It is a blessing to get old. It is a blessing to find the time to do the things, to read the books, to listen to the music.
It occurred to me that at one point it was like I had two diseases – one was Alzheimer's and the other was knowing I had Alzheimer's. There were times when I thought I'd have been much happier not knowing, just accepting that I'd lost brain cells and one day they'd probably grow back or whatever. It is better to know, though, and better for it to be known, because it has got people talking, which I rather think was what I had in mind.
So many different types. When I first met my husband, electric and vital. When I first held my boys in my arms, an overwhelming flood of defiant protection and magic.
Kind, loyal and (slightly) mad.
When I was 17 I didn’t visit my gran for six weeks as I was out partying. At the end of that summer she was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. I never saw the real her again. I would love to say sorry to her as I loved her so much.
It’s already happened – HRT.
I am a perimenopausal woman, so about two minutes ago, at a dog being adopted on Insta.
A radio journalist or on the till at Marks & Spencer.
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